Ooh la la!

Wow! Plausible Body are currently offering a french maid's outfit. I'm confident the concept of the erotic french maid is not lost on any of you, being a staple of films and photography over the years. It's also something called 'open price', which means it's L$0, but then you can donate as much or as little as you wish according to how much you feel it is worth to you. It's certainly worth quite a bit to me, as there are a variety of options available in what is an extensive folder of items that offer many, many opportunities to mix and match elements to achieve different sexy looks.

Starting with the top two photos, I'm in the full ensemble complete with feather duster. The third pic shows just the apron and shirt being worn, and the fourth stockings and garters (there's also 'frills' for the panties should you wish to add them. I could have taken so many more photos but I've limited to five here. The final photograph shows the undies, a see-thru bra (always a favourite at 2ex) and also just a wonderful pair of panties. I'm getting tired with the thong look, and a simple full brief pair of plain black panties just look wonderful.

Plausible Body also do a further range of shoes, latex jumpsuits and other items, and I'm pressed for time today, so I've IMed a couple of the other girls to maybe hop along and provide their own comments and photos about this wonderful little shop full of excellent, wonderful sexy, erotic items. This maid's outfit would be great for roleplay. And girls, maybe you could encourage the odd guy to offer employment opportunities by cleaning his condo while wearing this! ;)

Vaj

Bare Sensual pubic layer

I'd not heard of Bare Sensual before, but I was given the heads up by a 2ex reader (and SL friend) today about its current group gifts. So...without further ado...I headed on over there and joined the group (L$0) because, well, just look at the photos!

It's a free (free!!!) tattoo layer of delightfully natural pubes, and I'm really excited by these. Why? Because not only to they look absolutely fabulous, but the tattoo element means no awkward attaching/detaching of pubes that show through clothes. (I'm wearing a pair of sheer panties in one of the photos (below) to show how well the effect works, and oh how sexy it looks as an ensemble).

I've IMed the store owner, Gigi Ponnier, and have asked that the item -a sure fire 2EX 'sexy' item that I know you, the readers, will adore- is kept 'live' for at least a few more days so that you can zip over there and pick this sexy, sexy item up! No response yet (I've just sent her a notecard within seconds of blogging this on Friday morning) so be sure to hurry along and join. I note that Bare Sensual also does some very affordable L$10 items, such as skins. I missed a lovely looking Asian styled skin, but it's still available at an affordable price if you're looking for something in that line.

This store is a fabulous find, and I would encourage you all to nip over there and pick this up, pronto!

Love,

Vaj.

Graffiti

I'm grateful to the reader who sent me the top photo (in its uncensored form) and said that it reminded him of one of Mal's photos on the Attitudes Lingerie shoot. I sent Mal out to do a sort of replication of the real life photograph, and one example is attached. The rest of the shoot is going on our flickr site.

Note: I've censored the RL picture, as this is a 'cartoon', SL sexuality blog, not a porn page (although, granted, the photo isn't actually porn, but simply nude women). But I was tickled by the idea of readers comparing what they see elsewhere on the web and comparing to our pages -although I'm not quite sure what form of googling led to discovery of the RL pic, lol. And with that in mind I've decided that if you see a pic that you think is 'erotic' in any shape or form, and you'd like to see some of the girls or guys pose in similar SL surroundings, let me know and I'll send some of us out to pose for you!

Another brief inworld hiatus from me

Well, my 'weekend' is now over, and I'm currently at the airport as work is taking me away from home for about 10 days, and long working days at that. A project that I've been working on behind the scenes for months is about to come to fruition, and I'll be on site to manage certain elements of it.

The hotel has wi-fi, of course, so there'll be the odd posting from some of the other girls and boys, as time permits me to upload their contributions, but I don't expect to have any inworld presence for the next 10 days or so.

I'm quite excited about this upcoming 'gig', which is an MTV Europe production. And that's the only clue you're getting, lol. I should be in my hotel around lunchtime, so after a quick orientation of the site, I'll maybe get the chance to publish a couple of quickie posts before the hard work starts tomorrow.

Drama? Drama!

One of our growing band of readers passed the following to me. She received it unsolicited, and says she never met, knew (or slept with) the person named in the notecard, but I thought you might like to see the contents anyway.

This may come as a shock to some of you that I am sending this too or you may not even care but (name removed) is a 52 yr old man and also my husband whom I loved and trusted. After discovering he has this whole other life here I need some closure and would like to know why he did this and what kind of relationship he had with all these people.... was it just a game or did he really have a relationship with you. Did he have any other avatars? Anything you can tell me will help me figure out why he did this. I am also sorry if any of you have been hurt by his lies.

I'm guessing, but it rather looks like a male in his 50s has been posing as a female(?), and a milf(?). Now his RL wife has found out about SL and gone nuclear. Her whole world has been turned upside down by SL and some secretive world her husband inhabited, and reading between the lines she could, in theory, be suffering right now with the foundations of her marriage crumbling. Or is that the case?

Further sleuthing on the name of the person who has led this secretive Second Life reveals the following profile.

Yes I am a lying piece of shit!! I am a 52 yr old man. Be careful who you trust on SL. All of you who knew me are sick fucks! What comes around goes around.

Is that the wife re-writing the profile? Or is it something else? The first two sentences are consistent with 'the story so far', but then things go slightly awry. 'All of you who knew me are sick fucks?' Are they, though? If I've got this right, then the RL guy posing as a 'milf' has probably been cybering guys. Now, those guys may think they've been having sex with a woman, but it's really a man behind the keyboard. Does this change anything? We project our own mental images onto an avatar (and the words they write) and take whatever we need from the text exchange. Does this make the exchange more 'screwed up'? I'd argue it doesn't, as literature is littered with men writing as women, women writing as men, and projecting a false masculine/feminine 'sexuality' onto the page (where sexuality is in the text). If we read a racy novel, and the female heroine is sexually succumbing to some rugged hunk, the sexuality on the page remains real, erotic and maybe even arousing. Does it matter if it's male author writing from a female perspective, or vice versa? No. The words remain erotic and maybe even arousing.

SL is the same. If this guy has been posing as a 'milf' and bedding RL guys in the context of SL, it doesn't make those guys 'sick fucks'. Or the 'milf' author. It's merely an exercise in roleplay, fantasy, imagination, projection and literary skills. The 'milf' doesn't have to have issues pending, nor the (RL male) recipients of his 'loving'. It's a game and it's fantasy and imagination. Now unless there has been some RL confession about RL gender confusion, and latent homosexuality on the writer's part, it's not overly important, in my eyes. Worse, I think, would be the RL male posing as a young stud and bedding SL women by the score, because that might signify something in the RL marriage requiring attention. Even then, exercising a virtual need is probably better than visiting RL hookers.

Of course, that's only my opinion, and I'm aware that others (such as RL wife) might regard things differently. But I'm still confused by the profile, which says that 'what comes around goes around'. Will it? The RL guys screwed the 'milf' in good faith. What makes them 'sick'? (unless she's referring to them, too, being caught out masturbating in front of a SL screen by their RL wives. It's not very clear what's intended here.

But if we can learn anything from this is that it's real people with real feelings behind the keyboard, and it's always best to be nice to one another and as truthful as one can be. Yes, it's a fantasy where some truth is suspended, and it's the suspension of the real that makes SL such fun. How horrible would it be to live a SL where you work all day and then come home to watch TV with a Sl partner and maybe have sex once a week? Best to do nothing other than sail your yacht and bed shapely lovelies 2-3 times a night, isn't it?

The Pregnancy Reports (5)

Doksie's pregnancy continues, and she's now in her fifth month. I've asked for (but not got back yet) a further update, but I have heard from the father! There has been an exchange of IMs, and I report them verbatim (with his permission). I've decided not to name him, and his 'going public' will remain his choice and decision. I'm not overly fond of the 'f' word being used so often and freely on this blog, but having reached agreement for verbatim posting, I felt compelled to leave the words in. The only alterations are my italicised and bracketed comments where there were spelling errors.

We'll pick things up with the 3rd IM I sent him.

Emma: Hi, I'm Emma and I run a blog about SL sexuality. One of my volunteers, Doksie Resident, is pregnant with your child yet she hasn't heard from you despite IMing you. I'm wondering about your feelings on it and whether you'd like to talk about it.

??: Yeah, I got your IMs and I've seen your web sight (sic). I'll complain to Lindens if you use my name or make accusations about me.

E: I've no desire to name you for now. I'm just trying to piece together continuing reports about her pregnancy and the impact it has on yours and her SL. You can keep chatlogs about what's said and you have my promise I won't name you unless you agree. Will you talk to me about it?

??: OK. I'll keep the chatlogs in that case. I've talked to her in any case in the meantime. The pregnancy is a mistake.

E: You were both wearing the huds and it's a mistake?

??: I met her at the Mama Allpa sight (sic) and we started chatting. She was cute and funny and we ended up in bed, OK? I thought she was on the pill and I thought I was wearing the condom thing from Mama Allpa. It was just sex. She's not the one I wanted to make pregnant.

E: Wow! You had someone else in mind you were going to impregnate and disappear on?

??: You don't understand. It's complicated. I have a friend and I'm more emotionally attached to her. She's partnered in SL but we've been having an affair over a long time. She persuaded her partner to buy the hud so she could have a baby but she has been fucking him using (mama allpa) birth control while we've not been using it. I want to have her baby, not Doksie's. We wanted to have a SL child together and her SL partner not know about it and think it was his.

E: So Doksie was just meaningless sex?

??: I fucked her, yeah. She wasn't a great emoter. It wasn't erotic for me. There was no feeling of connected with her. It wasn't good cyber and I wouldn't have fucked her again.

E: You cyber a lot?

??: I'm happy with the pussy I get, yeah. It's not a crime. Most guys are at it.

E: I'm not being judgmental. I'm just establishing the background. So you bought the hud to get someone else pregnant, in the context of an SL affair, and Doksie was recreational as opposed to procreational sex. But do you feel you have any sense of responsibility?

??: Not really. It isn't like it's a real kid.

E: Yet you want to have 'not a real kid' with someone else? Someone who is already partnered and with whom you're cheating on her SL partner?

??: It's a game. We like the idea of him raising my kid in SL. We think its a funny idea.

E: Before we go any further, I'd like to get Doksie's response. Will you be prepared to talk to me again?

??: I don't know. As far as I'm concerned it's just another bit of Second Life. The baby can be hidden away in her inventory. Its not like it will effect (sic) her entire Second Life.

New Attitudes Collection

A few days away from SL (it's always RL work related!) and my email and IM boxes are full! Please bear with me. My RL work involves odd 'weekends' (this week's is Wednesday and Thursday, for example) and SL time is virtually zero when I'm working, so the blog often ends up as a couple of days endless blogging to get caught up, and then a few days of nothing. I'm not neglecting you, it's just that I'm busy paying the bills! :)

One of the first things I opened was from Mal, who has checked out the new fall Attitudes Lingerie collections. There's so many great photos and poses (and six sets of lingerie and swimsuits) that I've settled on just a few here on the blog, with others to follow on our Flickr site.

I don't need to say much, the quality of the collection speaks for itself. Five sets come free at their store, and a sixth can only be bought by joining the Attitudes group. Joining is also free, so what's stopping you?