No takers?

My erotic adventures are supposed to progress incrementally. OK, some people's first sexual encounter/experience may have been full intercourse, but these folk would be rare. I imagine most of us began slowly, with teenage fumblings on buses, in cinemas or wherever, and eventually as out experience and confidence grew, that eventually led to full vaginal intercourse and a lost virginity, sometimes happily waved goodbye, sometimes with a sense of tearfulness and regret.

I hope your first proper sexual experience was a good one.

And as in real life, it is my intention to progress on similar lines. I quite fancied the idea of 'unzipping' some hunk in SL and simply masturbating him prior to him having seen you naked or semi-naked. I think, apart from having the contents of our bras and panties fiddled and fumbled with, that would be many girls' experience of a cock. Unzipping and maybe fumbling inside his trousers, probably with his encouragement, to then slip it from his trousers.

Wow! So many different shapes and sizes! Circumcised and uncut. Long, short, fat, thin. There's a whole world of discovery in guys' shorts, lol! Other than in photographs, this would probably have been my first experience of one, my first boyfriend prompting me to explore his shorts while I manfully (womanfully?) fended off his attempts to explore mine! Simply in order to fend off his sexual advances on me, I got my hand inside his shorts and, well, explored!

Out it came, all limp at first. I was fascinated, spending time just looking, then tentatively touching and, at his urging, then awkwardly manipulating him to erection and, with indecent haste, to orgasm. And again, wow! Just to see the entire process was....amazing!

And other than a bit of a stroke at my knicker elastic and pubic hair, I was still squirming away from letting him reach 'the promised land'.

Anyway, I was rather intending my own SL sexual awakening to follow the same trajectory. Intercourse being something I could lead up to. Of course, SL's not like that. We're all different ages and different experience, rather than a peer group of a similar age all exploring together.

So, rather than going for a bit of horizontal tango straight off, I thought I'd explore some other elements of sexual activity. Strangely enough, despite my best efforts to round up a posse next to a bukkake pit, all for the fun of being photographed, I'm struggling to find volunteers!

See you in world as I continue my search.

Eroticism comes in many guises.

But you all knew that already.

I find that good lingerie can be exceptionally erotic because, at the right moment, as the clothes begin to slip to the floor, and reveal a whole new strata of arousing lingerie, it can be enormously exciting.

While this blog isn't intended to be a shopping blog (so many more do it so much better, such as Fab Free, Arya, Resa and so on) I do occasionally chance upon items I simply must share with you.

Lately, I've been exploring good quality (and free or cheap) lingerie. Again, you will find many, many instances of its availability via Renee's blog or Arya's, so there's not much need for me to go there. Instead, I find myself drawn to other shops, and slightly different items that aren't (often) shown in mainstream blogs. Items I like.

I would never consider buying a L$250 dress in SL when there are so many excellent freebies and group gifts around, but there is no limit to what I would spend on quality lingerie, lol.

I'll be editing this post later today, to include photos of charming freebie and cheap lingerie.

Life as a boy, part 1

By 'boy' I do, of course, mean 'man'. Yes, I created an alt, who shall remain anonymous for now, as it affords me the opportunity to spend a lot of time observing events laid out before me rather than, as a female, being sucked into them by constant 'hi!, sexy' IMs.

That's not to say I don't actually enjoy the conversation that sometimes arises from these encounters, but sometimes observing can be more enlightening as to the way in which people approach their sexuality in SL.

So this last while has been spent not being Emma, and rather being a rather crassly assembled 'noob' guy. You know, the type that still has a typing animation, noob walk, noob hair, noob cock. I'm not about to change this look as I like the amateurish way in which 'he' is constructed, and all the more likely to not attract too much attention (other than for people to maybe remark on how dreadful he looks, lol).

Beautifully timed! (and volunteers required)

Suffering from an overdose of the World Cup, I sneaked in a quickie (camping holiday) free of television, returning last night and stepping through my door just into time to see the closing credits of BBC's world cup coverage. Perfect timing.

Freed of my computer, I also spent the time with a pen and paper (remember them?) scribbling tales for The Library of Erotica's short story competition (I've posted about them elsewhere), which was kind of naughty and fun to do, working the naughtier side of my brain, lol, to come up with something entertaining. I think one of the stories will be called 'The Peach', but that's open to revision.

Anyway, it's good to be back and my adventures in SL will now continue more regularly.


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If there's anyone out there who would like to participate (and be photographed) in a bukkake film shoot, please IM me in world or email me via the blog.

Libertines and virgins

Promiscuity in men may cheapen love but sharpen thought. Promiscuity in women is illness, a leakage of identity. The promiscuous woman is self-contaminated and incapable of clear ideas. She has ruptured the ritual integrity of her body.

Camille Paglia


As someone who routinely reads profiles, of almost everyone I meet, I've been struck by the number of SL women for whom sex is most definitely off their agenda and whose profiles reflect this. I've been amongst their number, too, until I conceived this blog, but I've been actively seeking out women (and the occasional male) for whom SL sex is 'stupid', 'dumb', 'pointless' and 'ridiculous' (their words, not mine).

One woman I spoke to insisted on remaining anonymous, but had the following to say about cyber. (IM exchanges reworked into a flowing narrative).

'I'm married in RL, and happily so, so I don't quite comprehend the fascination for and emphasis on cybersex. I'm guessing that there needs to be something missing in a person's RL sex life, or relationship, for them to regard the whole process as necessary. I believe that cybersex is a refuge for the lonely or unhappy. For some, it's maybe the sex life they dreamed of in their youth, in RL, but it never happened for whatever reason. And for some guys I think it's almost like playing FIFA2010 (soccer computer game), and they're trying to score as much as possible. I don't need that. My RL provides me with the love and physicality I need. I don't think of it as adultery, although some players do, but I'm still not enthusiastic about the idea. What do I do? Type one-handed and fiddle with myself under the computer desk? The whole thing is just silly.'

Agree? Disagree? Let me know.

The World Cup

I've noticed a big downturn in SL traffic recently, and I blame the World Cup. There seems to be a much smaller number of people around right now. Is it just me or the times (European evenings) when I log in?

Where am I?

Well now...a good question.

I previously blogged about the erotic literature sim, where you can download examples of erotic writing by numerous SL users. They run a competition for short-story writing, with a Linden cash prize. I've decided to enter, providing I can finish it in time (five days to go until the closing date), so this week has been spent writing a story to enter (which I would very much regard as an integral part of the erotic SL experience). It's not the winning, it's the taking part, and I would expect that you will eventually be able to read my contribution here, either this month or following next month's competition.

Writing it has taken me out of world, of course, so I've not been around, playing, experiencing or contributing to SL (or this blog), but it is proving an interesting and testing experience. I hope to polish my story this evening, and get back inworld on Sunday (20th June).